Getting ready for your newborn’s arrival? One minute you’re full of excitement, and the next—you're knee-deep in baby checklists, overwhelemed by everyone's advice (solicited or not), and Instagram ads for every baby gadget under the sun. It’s a lot.
Here’s the honest truth: babies don’t need everything—just the right things.
Forget the clutter and Pinterest-perfect nursery pressure. The real first time mums must haves come down to the basics—keeping bub fed, rested, changed, and comfy. That’s it.
This guide cuts through the noise to give you clarity over chaos. Think of it as your no-fuss, mum-to-mum rundown of the best baby items for 2025. A thoughtfully curated baby essentials list to help you feel confident, supported, and yes—stylish—as you step into motherhood.
Let’s make this new chapter feel a little less overwhelming—and a lot fun.
What Do First-Time Mums Really Need?
Google has probably seen your late-night searches like "What to buy for a baby first time mum?" or "First baby checklist Australia". And while those lists can be helpful, they’re often packed with extras you’ll never use.
Here’s what actually matters: the basics that keep your baby fed, comfy, and safe—and keep you sane in the process. That’s it. Not a Pinterest-perfect nursery full of things you’ll never use.
In Australia, that means considering our warm climate, outdoor-friendly lifestyle, and often compact living spaces. So instead of overwhelming you with options, we’re focusing on the practical, mum-approved kind of essentials that help you navigate the fourth trimester with confidence.
This isn’t about having it all. It’s about having what works. From a breathable swaddle that actually stays put, to a baby bag that fits everything—we’ve got you.
The Ultimate Baby Essentials List for 2025
To keep things simple (because you’ve got enough going on), we’ve broken this down into easy categories.
Sleep Time Essentials
You’ll think about sleep a lot in those early weeks. A consistent sleep setup means more rest for bub—and more sanity for you.
Must-Haves:
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Cot or bassinet: Choose one that meets Australian safety standards.
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Swaddles or sleep sacks: Easy for wrapping and safer than loose blankets.
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Baby monitor: Helps you keep an eye (and ear) on bub from any room.
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White noise machine: Soothes your baby to sleep and muffles outside noise.
Feeding Must-Haves
Whether you’re breastfeeding, bottle feeding, or a mix of both—feeding gear should be comfortable and convenient.
Must-Haves:
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Breast pump (if breastfeeding): Manual or electric, depending on your needs.
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Bottles & steriliser: A few bottles and a sterilising system to start.
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Burp cloths: Trust us, you’ll want lots.
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Nursing pillow: Supports you and baby during feeds (and can help during tummy time too).
Changing & Nappy Time Gear
You’ll be changing nappies a lot—so let’s make it functional and (dare we say) stylish.
Must-Haves:
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Nappies & wipes: Whether you go disposable or reusable.
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Change mat: Essential for at-home and on-the-go.
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Nappy rash cream: Keep that baby skin soothed and protected.
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Nappy Bag Backpack: Comes with a portable change mat and pram clips—ideal for quick trips, daycare runs, or travel. It’s the nappy bag that actually looks like something you’d carry even without a baby.
Prefer something more sleek? Explore Tottie’s tote nappy bags—ideal for mums who want style without sacrificing space.
Bathing & Grooming Basics
Bath time is a beautiful bonding moment—but it helps to be prepared.
Must-Haves:
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Baby bathtub or seat: Something secure and sink-friendly.
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Soft towels & washcloths: Gentle on delicate skin.
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Baby-safe shampoo & wash: Hypoallergenic and fragrance-free options are best.
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Baby nail clippers & thermometer: For regular grooming and health checks.
Travel & On-the-Go Essentials
Life doesn’t stop when you have a baby—and neither do errands, family visits, or adventures.
Must-Haves:
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Pram or stroller: Lightweight and compact is key for Australian mums.
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Car seat: Rear-facing with proper installation is a must for safety.
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Baby carrier or wrap: For hands-free cuddles (and getting stuff done).
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Pram Clips: Keep your bag securely attached and your hands free.
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Change Mat: Waterproof, wipeable, and fits in every bag.
Planning an overseas trip with kids? Read our baby essentials list for travelling internationally with kids.
Clothing & Seasonal Items
Babies might be tiny, but the laundry piles are anything but. Between spills, blowouts, and surprise spit-ups, you’ll go through more outfits than you expect.
Must-Haves:
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Onesies: Zip-up styles are your 3am best friend.
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Socks, beanies & mittens: For warmth and scratch prevention.
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Layering singlets & seasonal gear: Breathable cottons for summer, fleece for winter.
Early Play & Development
Even in those sleepy newborn days, babies are learning. Sensory play helps kickstart development—and keeps your little one happily entertained during wake windows.
Must-Haves:
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Play gym or mat: Great for tummy time and visual stimulation.
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Soft rattles & toys: Easy to grasp and chew.
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Black-and-white visual cards: Support early vision development.
You don’t need an entire toy shop—just a few well-chosen items to help bub explore the world at their own pace.
Tips for Shopping as a First-Time Mum
We know the temptation to add to cart every baby must haves. But here’s how to shop smart:
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Start with the essentials, then build as you go.
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Borrow or buy second-hand for items like bassinets or baby swings.
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Create a baby registry for your baby shower or friends who want to help.
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Think long-term: Choose convertible gear (like a 2-in-1 cot), gender-neutral tones, and quality basics.
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Always have a packed nappy backpack ready—you’ll thank yourself during those last-minute outings.
Final Baby Essentials Checklist
Here’s a quick-reference version to screenshot or save.
| Category | Essentials |
| Sleep | Cot/bassinet, swaddles, monitor, white noise machine |
| Feeding | Bottles, breast pump, steriliser, nursing pillow, burp cloths |
| Changing & Nappy Time | Nappies, wipes, rash cream, change mat, nappy bag with clips |
| Bath & Grooming | Baby bath, soft towels, shampoo, thermometer, nail clippers |
| Travel & Outings | Pram, car seat, baby carrier, pram clips, change mat |
| Clothing & Weather | Onesies, socks, mittens, singlets, hats |
| Play & Development | Play gym, toys, visual cards, soft rattles |
FAQs at a Glance
What to buy for a baby first time mum?
Start with the baby essentials: a safe cot or bassinet, nappies, wipes, a feeding setup (breast pump or bottles), baby clothes, a baby bath, and a functional nappy bag backpack or tote nappy bag for outings.
What to buy for the first baby list?
Your first baby list should include newborn must-haves like sleep gear (cot, swaddles), feeding supplies, nappy-changing essentials, pram or car seat, clothing layers, and a practical nappy backpack to carry it all with ease.
What do you need to buy if you are a first time mum?
Focus on the basics: safe sleep setup, feeding tools, nappies, baby bath items, travel gear like a pram and car seat, and a reliable Tottie nappy bag with a change mat and pram clips to keep you organised on the go.
You’re Not Alone, Mama
This baby essentials list isn’t about buying everything under the sun—it’s about feeling ready, supported, and just a little bit stylish as you step into motherhood. Remember, every mum and bub is different—this is your starter guide, not a rule book.
Want to feel extra organised (and chic) on the go? Explore Tottie’s range of nappy bags, backpacks, and accessories. They’re designed by mums who get it—chic, functional, travel-ready and built for real life.
Real mum review:
"This is seriously the most beautiful, functional nappy bag I’ve ever had. I bought it as an upgrade from my usual gorgeous oioi backpack , which I do love, but I now have two under two and there’s a lot that we need to take with us each day!
This bag is so fashionable and I love how easy it is to open and see everything. The side pockets for bottles or Knick knacks are awesome and the front compartment is great too. It’s comfy to wear and I’m looking forward to overseas travel with this gorgeous bag.
But mostly, it makes me feel more like me and less like a backpack carrying tired mama (which I definitely am!). It instantly makes me feel a bit more stylish when I’m currently in my ‘barely enough time to brush my hair’ era!
Thank you Tottie for designing such a gorgeous bag. I’m so glad I bit the bullet and purchased this special accessory! Xxxx" – Emma C., 11/30/2024
Bonus Tip: Plug into your fave parenting podcasts during feeds, pram walks, or downtime. They’ll make you feel informed, empowered, and not alone.
//Credits: Featured photo by Kristina Paukshtite
